What makes you different?

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

My girlfriend told me that she wants to move in with me. I have my own apartment and I like my peace and quiet, but I also love her. We've been together for a year now. What should I do?

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

Without experiments, is life worth it.

My cantankerous beagle is very badly behaved at the dog park and always starts barking at the other dogs. Would pepper spray be an effective method to correct his inappropriate behavior?

What makes you YOU.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

What are your funniest "lost in translation" moments if you grew up speaking more than one language?

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

According to Trump, Ukraine started the war. Why?

So, keep on experimenting.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

Which current F1 drivers should switch teams based on historical patterns?

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

So, what actually makes us all different?

What should I do if I love someone who does not love me?

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

What was the first Native American tribe to inhabit Long Island, NY?

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

What exactly is female squirting? Is it only urine or a combination of liquids?

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

What contributed to the popularity of The Beatles' song 'Yesterday'? Was it due to its simplicity, lyrics, or other factors?

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

What are some tips for making your husband fall madly in love with you again after going through the worst phase of your marriage?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Agree?

Can you make it?

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Yes, I was not at all happy.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

What if he’d come outside?

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.